So… Tell Me About Yourself
Everyone who has ever been in a job interview has been asked this question. Most people will tell you that it’s the most difficult question in the entire interview process. What about this question is so difficult though? Shouldn’t this be the easiest question you’ll ever get since you know yourself better than anyone else?
Not necessarily and here’s why: In an interview this question isn’t really giving you the whole picture. There is quite a bit more to this question that the interviewer isn’t actually saying. Ready for the biggest interviewing bombshell of your blog reading life? What the interviewer is really asking is, “Tell me about yourself in relation to this position.” The last 5 words in that sentence change everything about the question and it’s very unlikely that you’ll ever actually hear them in an interview.
The fact of the matter is that when you first hear, “Tell me about yourself.” you’re very likely going to start telling someone about your family, your likes/dislikes, your hobbies, or maybe even your pet fish who may or may not have been abducted and replaced with an impostor. What you’re unlikely to do is to actually tell the interviewer what they want to hear. So, how do you answer the first and most important question of the interview?
Here are a few “Do’s” and “Don’ts” to help you navigate the interview landmine-
Don’t – Tell the interviewer irrelevant personal information. Talking about your hobbies and family may be fine but chances are the company is not going to hire you because of your love for bowling.
Do – Tell the interviewer what unique qualities you have that will be an asset to the company. Remember, the bottom line is that they may be interviewing quite a few prospective employees, so you need to be sure to let them know why you are going to be the best choice they could make.
Don’t – Try and wing it. This is not your first speech in entry level public speaking class